Friday is the new Tuesday

For many years now, Tuesday has been my favorite day of the week.

Tuesday is when new albums were released.  I still remember midnights as a teenager, waiting outside of Warehouse Records or Tower Records for the clock to hit midnight and the store clerks staying open for just a few more minutes so that the crazy people like myself could get their hands on a new album before they went to bed.  I’d get home, unwrap the CD and play it through while reading along with the lyrics, looking at the photos or reading the thank you notes that the band included.

In the past few years, things already changed and with the release of everything at midnight eastern time via iTunes and now on Rdio or Spotify, Monday evening has actually become my place of refuge.  9pm rolls around and you’ll find me hunched at my computer, burning new tunes into my ears.  It’s already lost some of its muster as it’s so easy to jump around from album to album, just listening to a track here or a track there to see what resonates.  It’s not like the days when I had to go somewhere, plop down $15 (which meant a lot back in the day) and then discover and entire new record.

And now the music industry has completely flipped me the middle finger.  Now albums come out on Fridays.  Which I presume means I can listen at 9PM or so on Thursday evenings if I’m on the west coast, midnight on the east.  I’m sure I’ll get used to this, but it’s a change that I didn’t want to live with.  Fridays are already great days.  Fridays begin the weekend.  Fridays are shabbat.  Fridays are TGIF night and we share them with Michelle Tanner and Steve Urkel.  But I guess as they are no longer a part of my week either, I can learn to live with music being released in their place.

I actually wrote a business plan for one of my college classes for a website called  I’m glad I never went through with that concept.

Here’s to Fridays.  Now if only something good was actually set to release on this upcoming one…




I miss traveling.

I might miss it more right now than ever before.

One of my best friends, Dan, is currently writing a blog about the adventures that we had 10 years ago while traveling around the world with nothing but our backpacks, a sense of adventure and fleeting memories that dwelled with us as we made a new home each and every day.  It’s those homes that I miss the most.

If you haven’t ever backpacked, you’d never understand.  It sounds conceited and quaint, but backpackers are a different breed and in my opinion, a better breed.  We are a symbiotic group of individuals from around the globe who have chosen to make homes of each other.  We survive on dirt, sweat, laundry, street food, dorm beds, cheap beers and the laughter of strangers.  As Billy Joel once wrote,

“well i’ll never be a stranger and I’ll never be alone. whenever we’re together, that’s my home.”

I know he was writing about a lover, but the same lyrics come to mind when I think about every person that I’ve met over the years while sleeping at hostels and the feeling was reignited this past week while I spent 3 nights at a hostel in Tulum – a tiny town on the Gulf of Mexico on the Yucutan Peninsula.IMG_2372

I was in town for a wedding that would take place at a resort about 40 miles up the coast a few days later, but took some of time to live the way that I like to live.  I took a public bus from the airport to Playa Del Carmen because it was the furthest south I could get.  Then I took a second bus to Tulum.  I had written down the name of a hostel and some cursory directions on a printout of tidbits of info on the city.  My notes, as mentioned, were cursory. They failed to mention if I should turn right or left from the bus station and I predictably went the wrong way.  Several blocks later I asked, in gringo Spanish, a police officer armed with a semi-automatic weapon slung over his shoulder and hugged to his chest where the street was that I was looking for.  He sent me on my way.

I giggled with excitement when I saw how dilapidated the facade of my new domicile was.  Across the street from a taco cart that used a hand written sign on a poster board to announce it’s name and offerings, the thatched roof on this place must have been erected a decade of suns ago and the trash strewn empty lot beside it just made me so fucking happy.  I honestly missed walking up to a place that looked like hell because I knew the greatness that lied inside.IMG_2406

I checked in. Dropped my bag at my bed and sat at the bar in the open air common space that made up the front of the hostel.  The bartender that night was a guy named Mike.  He hailed from Holland but spoke English with a near perfect California accent.  He would claim that he learned to speak from watching hours and hours of Cartoon Network as a child.  He was working there in exchange for a free bed for a week or so.  Three Aussie girls arrived at the bar.  Heidi, Stacey, and Beck.  Two blondes and a half Asian.  All adorable in their own right.  We all enjoyed a beer or two, but having just had a wild night the evening before, these kids were all ready for an easy night. But by the end of my first beer, we had already all become more than friends.  We had become each other’s home.

The following day I would rent a bicycle and the Dutchman, the three Aussie’s and two Frenchmen who were already a part of their home from the day before would travel the city together.  We visited a cenote, which is essentially an open air cave that collects rainwater, creating a magnificent place to swim and snorkel amongst freshwater fish and turtles.  We drank smoothies.  We visited the Tulum ruins that overlook the crystal turquoise water.  We sat on the beach, letting the sun turn these experienced travelers a darker shade of brown and giving me the first tan that I’d had in months.

That evening we drank a few more beers at our hostel bar, getting to know a Japanese-American bar owner from San Antonio and his girlfriend.  New additions to our home.

Nine of us (2 French, 3 Aussie, 1 Dutch, 3 American and 1 Mexican – also a traveling hostel employee) went out that night without much of a plan.  We parked ourselves at a bar a few blocks down the main road.  It was dead, but most of this small town was.  We had some more drinks and by the time the Spanish language reggae music started to play, we were in the mood to have a dance party.  The nine of us.  Just the nine of us.  People who hadn’t known of our own existence the day before.  We got up and created our own party.  It was one of those moments that you rarely experience with your closest of friends.  No inhibitions whatsoever.  Nobody trying to impress anyone.  Nobody trying to be “cool.”  Just nine strangers who had become a family within 24 hours time, dancing wildly, surrounded by empty space and flowing music.

IMG_2445I miss those moments.  I miss those people.  I miss those dirty towns and humid streets and the tranquilo vibes that flow throughout hostels in nearly every country around the world.  I miss my home, even when I’m home.



The New Peter Gabrielz

Less sledgehammers, more quirky badassery.

Each of their songs starts off vaguely interesting, but something about the electronic loops and friendly vocal tone keeps you there until it ends.

I think I want more.



A dozen years ago I was at a show at The Fonda. I believe I was there back when I worked for The Sounds’ record label. The Sounds were supporting Rooney.

Outside the venue, after the show, someone was handing out a free demo cd that had been burned on their computer.

I’ll always take a free demo.

If nothing else, it’s worth a laugh.

I listened to this one over and over and over.

The band was called Everybody Else. I love them.

Carrick was their lead singer, and likely was really the entirety of the project.

Now he’s kickstarting his own record. Here is a song.

Random side note… 6 years ago Taylor Locke, lead guitar player from Rooney, formed a band called The Roughs. Their drummer was the former Everybody Else drummer, Mikey.


Nate Ruess

I’ve posted about The Format.

I’ve posted about Fun.

I’ve posted about Bleachers.

I guess I can’t not post Nate Ruess’ new solo single release.

As good as he always was. As good as he always is.